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Your Sexual Positions and Premature Ejaculation

All right, so we’re getting to get a little… well, personal. I know, more personal! But when discussing ways to manage and ultimately cure premature ejaculation, the time for dancing around is over and it’s time to look at some hard things, namely how to stay hard longer! One of the things which many men don’t think about when trying to put a handle on this problem is the sexual positions they are taking and how they are using their muscles. Certainly having sex takes muscles; holding any position will demand something from your body, but how you do these positions and how you use these muscles will have an impact on your ejaculation speed. I bet you didn’t know that! Here’s how certain ways of using muscles can actually make it harder to last longer even though you thought it helped you to have better sex and furthermore, which positions are better for lasting longer in bed.

Puffing Yourself Up to Look Bigger

How many guys have done this: You’re in missionary position and you are worried that you’re not large enough for your partner (as a side note, while size can matter, it’s really not as big a deal as the media makes it out to be!). So, in order to seem bigger, you tighten your muscles as you push out so that you feel and look larger. This, combined with the general muscle tension of having sex, creates grounds for men to come sooner. This is why many men last longer when the woman is on top; it’s easier to manage that muscle tension.

The best way to handle this problem is to work on your muscle tension levels and be able to manage it while in the heat of the moment so that you’re not ejaculating too quickly due to the need to release that tension. Good ways of learning this skill include things like yoga, stretching and working out; this will alleviate the tension in your pelvic and abdominal muscles outside the bedroom and let you manage that tension inside the bedroom so that you come when you are ready, not before! And make sure you don’t worry about puffing yourself up to look bigger; odds are that at this point, your partner isn’t even thinking too much about it at this point!

What’s interesting about the missionary position is that it is the position with the most likelihood of having premature ejaculation issues, but it’s also the male dominant position. It’s a good example of how, in sex as well as in most good relationships, it’s a good idea to share the load!

Changing Up Positions

One good way to at least manage premature ejaculation and keep having sex while doing things like therapy or using products like Gambir Sarawak, is to change up the positions. Good positions for dealing with premature ejaculation include female superior (woman on top), side to side and doggy style. All of these things are better than missionary because they don’t cause as much muscle tension and the woman has more control which makes it easier for her to be pleasured and takes some of the strain off the man. Use deep breathing with these positions to keep blood and oxygen circulating and imagery to sustain your erection longer. These things are also easier to do when you’re not on top, so loosen up control a little and let her take the reins!

While there are all kinds of ways to cure premature ejaculation for good, a great way to start is right in your own bedroom with how you have sex with your partner. Changing up from the regular missionary position and combining it with deep breathing and imagery are all good ways to last longer in bed and have a happier, more in control partner. This in turn will lead to even better sex, so it’s a win-win all around. Give it a try tonight and see how much longer you can last when you change up the positions!

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